You're not alone in your grief. We hope you find the links below of some additional comfort.
Human/Animal Bond Trust www.humananimalbondtrust.org

Argus Institute www.argusinstitute.colostate.edu

Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement

www.aplb.org

Pet Loss

www.petloss.com

Rainbow Bridge

http://www.indigo.org/rainbowbridge_ver2.html

 

Where to Bury a Good Dog

An 86-year-old poem that rings true today

Julia Kamysz Lane | April 12, 2012

Taken From http://thebark.com/content/where-bury-good-dog

There is one special place for every good dog.

A friend sent this poem to me, knowing how much I miss my beloved Desoto and Shelby. I had been holding onto their ashes, unsure of where to bury my good dogs. Shall I scatter them into the Louisiana swamps that Desoto loved to explore? Would Shelby be happiest under the big tree, watching for squirrels? This poem tells me they're already in the right place. —Julia Kamysz Lane

  

Article on how to cope after the death of your pet

After Death Pet Services

Losing a dear friend is never easy. We understand that the passing of a beloved pet needs to be handled with dignity and compassion. Through years of caring, compassionate companion animal care, we understand the emotions encountered when a pet passes.

Determining what to do with your pet's remains is always a difficult decision to make. Our goal is to help you make the right decision for you and your family and to provide you with a sense of closure. Our staff is dedicated to making this difficult time as easy for you and your family as possible. If there is any way that we can help, please let us know.

Pet Cremation Services

If you choose to have your animal cremated you have two options; if you choose a private cremation your animal will be cremated alone and all of their ashes will be returned to you. If you choose a group/mass cremation your animal is cremated with other deceased pets and no ashes are returned.

Private Cremation

Your pet is cremated by itself with no other animals. All of the pet's remains (ashes) are returned to the owners. We return the remains to you in a memorial container.

Mass Cremation

Your animal is cremated WITH other animals. There is no way to place more than one animal in a crematory at a time and the remains not contact the other animals. Due to the air flow particles will be blown around. No ashes are returned to the owner because there is no way to guarantee which pet they are from. Some places will place each animal in individual trays or place dividers between animals, there is no way to 100% guarantee that remains aren't mixed when multiple animals are in the chamber at the same time.

Where To Bury A Dog

By Ben Hur Lampman

There are various places within which a dog may be buried. We are thinking now of a setter, whose coat was flame in the sunshine, and who, so far as we are aware, never entertained a mean or an unworthy thought. This setter is buried beneath a cherry tree, under four feet of garden loam, and at its proper season the cherry strews petals on the green lawn of his grave. Beneath a cherry tree, or an apple, or any flowering shrub of the garden, is an excellent place to bury a good dog. Beneath such trees, such shrubs, he slept in the drowsy summer, or gnawed at a flavorous bone, or lifted head to challenge some strange intruder. These are good places, in life or in death. Yet it is a small matter, and it touches sentiment more than anything else.

For if the dog be well remembered, if sometimes he leaps through your dreams actual as in life, eyes kindling, questing, asking, laughing, begging, it matters not at all where that dog sleeps at long and at last. On a hill where the wind is unrebuked and the trees are roaring, or beside a stream he knew in puppyhood, or somewhere in the flatness of a pasture land, where most exhilarating cattle graze. It is all one to the dog, and all one to you, and nothing is gained, and nothing lost—if memory lives. But there is one best place to bury a dog. One place that is best of all.

if you bury him in this spot, the secret of which you must already have, he will come to you when you call—come to you over the grim, dim frontiers of death, and down the well-remembered path, and to your side again. And though you call a dozen living dogs to heel they should not growl at him, nor resent his coming, for he is yours and he belongs there.

People may scoff at you, who see no lightest blade of grass bent by his footfall, who hear no whimper pitched too fine for mere audition, people who may never really have had a dog. Smile at them then, for you shall know something that is hidden from them, and which is well worth the knowing.

The one best place to bury a good dog is in the heart of his master.

Cremation Services

The James A. Brennan Humane Society is equipped with a crematory and services the Fulton, Montgomery area. You can bring your deceased pet to us directly and we will perform either a private or group cremation. Our rates are as follows:

Group

Fee

Fee with Tax

0-20 pounds

$86.45

$93.36

21-50 pounds

$113.05

$122.09

51-100 pounds

$119.70

$129.28

100-150 pounds

$146.30

$158.00

Over 150 pounds

$179.55

$193.91

Private

Fee

Fee with Tax

0-20 pounds

$152.95

$165.19

21-50 pounds

$179.55

$193.91

51-100 pounds

$192.85

$208.28

100-150 pounds

$248.05

$267.89

Over 150 pounds

$272.65

$294.46

 
10 Signs Your Dog May Be Ready To Cross The Rainbow Bridge

by Amber Kingon January 18, 2019

Signs your dog may be ready to pass

When the time comes to say goodbye, all dog parents hope their pets peacefully pass away after a long, happy life. The unfortunate reality, however, is senior dogs and dogs suffering from illness or injury most often rely on their owners to know when it's time to cross the Rainbow Bridge. Choosing to end a life-a life you've cherished as part of the family-is an impossibly difficult decision, but preventing suffering is your biggest concern.

No one wants their best friend to suffer, and veterinarians guide dog owners in how to tell when illness or advanced age has become too much for a pet to bear. There is no clear answer to when it's time to say goodbye, but there are signs to look for to help make this important decision. Having one or two of the following symptoms doesn't necessarily mean it's your dog's time, but noticing several of these signs indicates it might be time to talk to your vet about a peaceful end of life plan.

1. Loss of Appetite

For most dogs, eating is their favorite thing to do. They enthusiastically chomp down dinner and accept every treat offered and left unguarded. When a dog suddenly or gradually stops showing an interest in meal time, it's a sign something isn't right. As organs shut down, the dog loses their sensation of hunger and thirst. Eating is suddenly more effort than it's worth, and even the juiciest steak can't tempt them into chewing. Health will continue to decline without a healthy diet. Temporary fasting could be caused by something as benign as a stomach ache, but if meals go untouched for several days in a row, it's time to speak to a veterinarian.

2. Extreme Weight Loss

Gradual weight loss isn't easy to spot. Most dogs step on a scale once a year at their annual vet check-up. If their owner isn't picking them up on a regular basis, gradual weight loss can easily go unnoticed. It doesn't happen all at once, but one day a dog owner might notice their pooch looking especially thin. It could be related to a lack of appetite or their body's inability to process nutrients.

3. Chronic Pain

A dog can't tell you when they don't feel well, and that makes recognizing the signs of chronic pain especially challenging. The key is to pay close attention to the dog's body language, movements, and behaviors. Sometimes pain can be managed with medication or regular physical therapy, and sometimes it can't. Pain management strategies that used to work in the past can stop being effective. If your dog doesn't seem to perk up after taking medication, or if their regular physical therapy routine no longer seems useful, their pain is negatively-and most likely permanently-affecting quality of life

4. Loss of Interest

Veterinarian and VetStreet contributor Dr. Andy Roark suggests dog owners measure quality of life by making a list of their pet's five favorite things to do. The list could include playing fetch, eating, or greeting their owner every time they come through the door. It's important to make your list based on what your dog liked doing when you knew they were healthy and happy. Dr. Roark says,

"When he or she can no longer do three or more of [the items on the list], quality of life has been impacted to a level where many veterinarians would recommend euthanasia."

5. Mood Changes

Along with loss of interest, ailing dogs might also show signs of mood changes. Affectionate dogs known for being good around children might gradually grow wary of the same behaviors they used to tolerate. sleeping more often and being generally inactive.

Pain and a general low quality of life can cause them to be short-tempered and even aggressive. They might start responding to situations in unexpected ways and begin behaving differently around family members. They could also show signs of depression including

6. Social Withdrawal

Many aging dogs can sense when their time is coming and choose to withdraw from the family. Some canine behaviorists believe dogs isolate themselves at the time of their death as an instinct to not slow down the pack or cause unnecessary trauma for loved ones. Not everyone supports this theory, but social withdrawal often happens at the end of a dog's life. They seek isolation to avoid contact, sometimes because being touched is too painful to bear. They hide in closed-off areas and spend more time by themselves than with family.

7. Incontinence

Incontinence is the inability to control the muscles in the bladder or bowels leading to the involuntary loss of urine or feces. It's a condition that affects senior dogs of all breeds. Pets WebMD lists urinary tract infections, hormonal imbalances, degenerative spinal conditions, diabetes, and kidney disease as possible causes. Constant dripping of urine or feces makes a mess, and it also irritates the skin. Senior dogs that start having frequent accidents indoors could be suffering from incontinence and be too weak to make it outside. Not every case of incontinence is related to an animal's end of life, but it's important to speak to a veterinarian.

8. Breathing Problems

As the body shuts down, breathing becomes more difficult. End of life breathing problems could manifest as a chronic cough or the dog's inability to take a deep breath. Their breathing might sound uneven or there could be uncomfortably long pauses between each exhale and inhale. Labored breathing drains a dog's energy and usually leads to regular lethargy.

9. Loss of Coordination

A general decline in coordination and cognitive dysfunction is common in senior dogs. A dog near their time might seem especially clumsy and unsteady on their feet. They often give the appearance of being dizzy and might walk into furniture and have trouble getting from place to place. In some cases, the dog might choose to remain sedentary because they know standing will lead to loss of limb control and disorientation.

10. Trouble Standing

If coordination problems aren't what's keeping a dog from moving around, it could be pain and muscle weakness. Muscles gradually deteriorate due to advanced age and poor nutrition. A dog that used to be able to leap over the fence might start having trouble walking and even standing. This inability to move around can be both frustrating and depressing to the dog. Some try their hardest to get up only to collapse due to weakness.

Watching your dog's health decline is the most painful part of being a pet owner. Above everything else, you don't want them to suffer. Making an end of life decision for your dog won't be easy, but it's important to put your dog's needs above your own emotions. Think of the situation objectively and talk to as many people as you can. Discuss with friends who made similar decisions and talk it over with other adults in the family. Your veterinarian will give you their recommendation, but the decision is solely yours to make. Palliative care can help ease your dog's suffering and keep them comfortable as you consider options.

 

Home | About Us | Adoptable Dogs | Adoptable Cats | Happy Tails | Latest Scoop | Donate | Animal Cruelty |

Forever Loved | Community Support | Helpful Links

D. Dougherty, webmaster

ddougher@nycap.rr.com or jabmhs@yahoo.com